Mindset Monday: The Power of Self Talk

If you think you are beaten, you are,

If you think you dare not, you don't,

If you like to win, but you think you can't,

It is almost certain you won't. 

If you think you'll lose, you're lost,

For out of the world we find,

Success begins with a fellow's will...

It's all in the state of mind. 

If you think you are outclassed, you are,

You've got to think high to raise,

You've got to be sure of yourself before...

You can ever win a prize. 

Life's battles don't always go...

To the stronger or faster man,

But soon or late the man who wins...

Is the man WHO THINKS HE CAN!

 Author: Unknown 

Observe the words which have been emphasized, and you will catch the deep meaning which the poet had in mind. 

Somewhere  in your mind lies sleeping the seed of achievement which, if aroused and put into action, would carry you to heights such as you may never have hoped to attain. - Napoleon Hill. 

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Mindset Monday: Seeing Is Believing

Mindset Monday: Seeing Is Believing 

Have you heard of the term "Seeing Is Believing?" I'm sure you have. Well that term applies to many things but when you apply it to health and fitness it takes on a whole new meaning. Believe it or not most people don't believe they can achieve a goal unless they see someone achieve it before them. 

This was true in the past and it is still true today. Take the 4 minute mile for example. Most people thought that it was impossible to break through the 4 minute mark on a mile run but once Roger Bannister did it in 1954 by running a mile in 3:59.4 seconds others went on to accomplish this once seemingly unattainable goal. 16 other runners in fact did it within 3 years of Roger. 

What changed in those 3 years? The simple answer to that question is the runners mindset. Once they saw Roger do it this goal became real and tangible. What goals do you have that people around you are accomplishing? Are you using their accomplishments as motivation? Better yet are you engaging them to find out what they are doing to reach their goals and how they approach them?

Bottom line we are all in this together. If we work with each other we can accomplish the seemingly impossible. All it takes is being around the right type of people with the right mindset to help give you the boost you need to do the things you never saw yourself doing alone. 

If you need an accountability team or if you are looking for a positive, motivating group of people to train with please take a serious look into TFW Hicksville (www.tfwhicksville.com) we will help you bring out the warrior within...

Coach Jamel

Mindset Monday: Developing Your Inner Circle

People say "misery loves company", what people fail to tell you is successful people attract other successful people to them. The exact polar opposite of the former statement. A good example of this is the couple who decide to reside together, become comfortable and end up going from physically fit to overweight.

In my line of business I have see this scenario play out time and time again, to the point that they each look at one another with the burning question, how did we get here? This is because you are the sum total of those you spend the most time with.

There's a saying, "show me your 5 closest friends and I'll show you where your life is heading". This statement happens to be true! Life is like a play and the show must go on... The front row at shows, concerts, ect. is usually reserved for VIPs.

You have to use that same philosophy in your life. The front row of your life should be reserved for people that build you up, not break you down. This holds true for health and fitness as well as. Surround yourself with people who will support you and your fitness journey, your decision to become a better version of yourself and people who take action instead of just talking about what they want to do.

4 things you should look for when developing your inner circle:

1. Compatibility - Look for people that are into the same things that you are into. Who are operating on the same wavelength that you are. Example: if you want to be a more positive person hang around positive people.

2. Experience - Look for someone who has done what you are doing and has done it successfully. When it comes to fitness this person would be your fitness coach or personal trainer. He or she will be able to lead you through the pitfalls and setbacks that come with changing your unhealthy lifestyle for a healthy one.

3. Like Values - John Maxwell stated that "values are the soul/ the energy that get you there...". The word there simply means to your goal. Whatever that goal is you have to find people that operate from the same or a similar set of values that you operate from. This will ensure that you are not engaging in any transactions that do not benefit all whom it affects. You have to look for people who fully understand that no wealth or position can long endure unless built upon truth and justice.

4. Loyalty - Look for someone who cares for you enough to tell you the truth even if telling you the truth will hurt. This person will not only tell you the truth but will also be loyal enough to stay in the trenches with you until the battle is won. The more you fight for the same goals together the stronger your bond will become. This is why coaches and athletes, trainers and clients and training partners all have strong bonds, life changing bonds when both let down their guards and truly try to help each other become better.

Go from a "me" to a "we" way of thinking and you will succeed. Ask yourself daily how you can make your inner circle better and while striving to make them better you will realize that by making them better you become better. When your whole inner circle is operating with this philosophy, you all become better and more successful together. Now get out there and analyze who should be siting in your front row....

Coach Jamel

Mindset Monday: Limiting Beliefs 

 We have all heard the saying, "You are what you eat". But how many of you have heard the saying, "You are what you think"? 

The truth of the matter is, you are the summation of your thoughts. Consider these seemingly benign statements that we say to ourselves on a daily basis:

✳ “I can’t tell the truth because I may get judged…”

✳ “I don’t want to get close to this person lest my heart gets broken…”

✳ “I don’t want to ask for what I want because, what if I get rejected?”

✳ “I can’t trust people because I’ve been betrayed before…”

✳ “I can’t pursue my dreams because I don’t know what I’d do if I fail…”

✳ “I can’t do X because of Y…”

✳ “I can’t do A because of B…”

Let's take a closer look at one of these statements. "I can't pursue my dreams because I don't know what I'd do if I fail". The truth of the matter is failure is an illusion.

If your dream is to get into Harvard and you don't get accepted. You didn't fail because nothing in your life changed. Before you applied for Harvard you weren't a Harvard student and afterwards you aren't a Harvard student.

The truth is you know how to NOT be a Harvard student better than you know how to be one. All of your life you weren't a Harvard student. And that life was good enough to get you to the position that you could apply to that particular school.

We tend to let fear stop us from achieving our goals because we don't want to fail but failure is just a stepping stone towards success.

If you believe that you can you will! Your belief in your goals have to be so finite that you can reach out in touch it, or you can see yourself with that possession or in that ideal body. That desire to have your goal must be a burning desire backed by faith, that it will materialize in your life.

My challenge to you is, write down your goal(s) on an index card. Carry that card with you daily and read it at least 3 times a day. Also Act As If you have achieved your goal already. The moment you start Acting As If, you have achieved your goal that's the moment you will start subconsciously taking steps towards your goal.

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— at Training for Warriors Hicksville.

7 In home workouts to burn fat

For use when you are stuck at home and get get to the gym!

We know it can be hard sometimes to make it to the gym. Schedules change, things come up, you have to work late. We get it! 

That's why our coaches over at Training for Warriors Hicksville Have come up with 7 workouts you can do in your home or office that will take no time at all and leave you with a nice fat burning, muscle building sweat!


Some general points:

• Each workout is only about 10-20 minutes long
• You only need your body! (no equipment needed)
• You will be counting “reps” during the movement (for the most part) and looking at your watch during the rest periods to keep yourself honest. Just make sure you move fro one exercise to the next with little or no rest until the small break period!
• You can do these exercises at any point of the day
• Try to vary your workouts (don’t do the same workout over and over again)
• You may even consider doing 2 home workouts per day split with at least 6 hours apart (exception: don’t do a home workout if you’ve come to boot camp that day)t
• Believe in yourself!

Warm-Up:

Always warm-up with the following routine:
20 seconds of running in place
20 seconds of running in place “butt-kicks”
20 seconds of hands behind head “high-knees”
20 seconds of fake “jump-rope”
10 arm circles to the front
10 arm circles to the back
10 leg swings each leg (forward and backward and side to side)
REPEAT ONCE MORE

Workout #1 – The Dirty 30

• 30 Push-ups (rest if you need to but get it done)
• 30 alternating reverse lunges with hands on head (15 for each leg)
• 30 squat jumps
• 30 straight leg raises

rest for 1 minute then repeat 2 more times!

Workout #2 – Up The Ladder, Down The Ladder

• 5 Close Grip Push-ups
• 10 Mountain Climbers
• 15 Reverse Crunches
• 20 Bicycles
• 25 Toe Touches
• 30 Squats
• 35 fake jump ropes
• 40 alternating forward lunges with hands behind head (20 each side) then go in reverse back to 35,30,25 etc.

Rest 90 seconds when you have gone up and down the ladder, then repeat one more time!

Workout #3 – Tummy Toner

• 15 full sit ups
• 20 toe touches
• 25 straight leg raises
• 30 bicycles
• 45 seconds in planks position (just get on your forearms and hold your body tummy tight for 45 seconds

Rest 30 seconds and repeat 3 more times!

Note: Please don’t do this home workout every single time! The name sounds tempting but you’re going to burn more fat with full body exercises and our general boot camp workouts! You can’t do a million sit ups a day and expect a lean, body-fat “free” midsection without full body resistance training workouts and smart eating. I put this workout in because there is nothing wrong with having a workout dedicated to a problem area but don’t fall into the trap of only doing ab stuff and expecting a new body! The 3am infomercial promise is NOT what we are about! We are about hard work, commitment, science, patience, failing forward and believing in yourself!

Workout #4 – Double Time

• 10 Burpees
• 20 Front to Back Jump Squats (jump and squat to the front, then backwards)
• 40 – Ab Windshield Wipers (20 each side)

Rest one minute then repeat 4 more times!

Workout #5 – Why Did I Choose This One!

• 10 Squats
• 10 Right leg reverse lunges
• 10 Right leg forward lunges
• 10 Left leg reverse lunges
• 10 left leg forward lunges
• 10 Burpees
• 10 “up, up, down, down” push-ups

Rest 1 minute, then repeat 3 more times!

Workout #6 - Outside Workout

If you’re gonna be outside in a park, this one is perfect!

20 seconds of all out “someone is chasing me and he looks mean” running immediately followed by 10 squats with hands behind hand and finishing with 10 push ups.

You rest 40 seconds then you repeat 6 more times for a total of 7 “all-out” sprints.

Workout # 7 – Cardio Equipment Workout -“The 20 Minute Solution”

If some of you still have your chain gym membership and you use the cardio machines or you have an elliptical or treadmill at home, or if you are visiting a hotel, here is a good workout to do that is way more effective than “steady-state cardio” and it’s faster. This can be done any piece of equipment.

Note: Level 1-10 is a “perceived level of difficulty” meaning level 1 is super easy for YOU, level 4-6 is moderate and level 10 is your absolute limit.

This is not “what the treadmill or elliptical speed or level is or says” – this is what YOU perceive to be tough for YOUR BODY.

Person A might think that a level 5 for her is running at a speed of 6.7 on the treadmill while person B that is out of shape might think that level 5 for her is simply walking.

Min 0-2 – level 5 (for you)
Min 2-3 – level 6
Min 3-4 – level 7
Min 4-5 – level 8
Min 5-6 – level 9
Min 6-7 – level 6
Min 7-8 – level 7
Min 8-9 – level 8
Min 9-10 – level 9
Min 10-11 – level 6
Min 11-12 – level 7
Min 12-13 – level 8
Min 13-14 – level 9
Min 14-15 – level 6
Min 15-16 – level 7
Min 16-17 – level 8
Min 17-18 – level 9
Min 18-19 – level 10 * this is the all out minute
Min 19-20 – cool down back at level 5

That’s it!  Please let me know if you have any questions!

The Ultimate Team

PS:  Keep this email on file for future use.  If you have any questions please let me know, AND if you want to know how I can help you get in great shape faster than you ever DREAMED call us at 516-551-8900 and get involved with our Training for Warrior Fitness Program! More information can be found at www.tfwhicksville.com  

Mindset Monday: Bad habits are hard to break and good habits are hard to start.

Why you may ask? Because of two little words "Comfort Zone". People are set in their ways and tend to lean towards the familiar. 

If your daily routine is waking up going to work only to return home and watch endless hours of tv while eating a poorly planned meal, that cycle is going to be hard to break. But look on the bright side. You can break that cycle by planning your week ahead. 

Here's my challenge to you. Take Sunday evenings moving forward to plan out your week. What things you need to accomplish, what food you will eat, what workouts you will do, what time you will get to bed, etc. write it down and follow the plan.

Most people have a goal they want to accomplish but they don't have a plan on how to accomplish that goal. This will help you draft a plan to get to that goal. 

Step outside of your comfort zone because that's where you will be challenged to grow and build yourself up Mentally, Physically and Spiritually. As you get stronger and more comfortable with being uncomfortable you will get closer to your goal.

Want to learn how? Take the 8 Week Transformation Challenge at TFW Hicksville starting January 11, 2016. Call 516-937-3740 or apply online at www.tfwhicksville.com. Link in Bio.

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Transform your body and mind in 2016! Some cool points to make sure you get the most out of your year

Let this coming year be better than all the others. Vow to do some of the things you've always wanted to do but couldn't find the time.

Call up a forgotten friend. Share a funny story with someone whose spirits are dragging. A good laugh can be very good medicine.

Make a genuine effort to stay in closer touch with family and good friends. The surest way to have a friend is to be one.

Find the time to be kind and thoughtful. Give a compliment. It's sure to give someone a badly needed lift.

Think things through. Forgive an injustice. Listen more. Be kind.

Apologize when you realize you are wrong. An apology never diminishes a person. It elevates him. Don't blow your own horn. If you've done something praiseworthy, someone will notice eventually.

Lighten up. When you feel like blowing your top, ask yourself, "Will it matter in a week from today?" Laugh the loudest when the joke is on you.

Don't discourage a beginner from trying something risky. Nothing ventured means nothing gained. Be optimistic. The can-do spirit is the fuel that makes things go.

Don't abandon your old-fashioned principles. They never go out of style. When courage is needed, ask yourself, "If not me, who? If not now, when?"

Walk tall, and smile more. You'll look 10 years younger.

Don't be afraid to say, "I love you".

Say it again. They are the sweetest words in the world.

And Have a Happy New Year!

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